Category Archives: Lifes Lessons

Deliberate or Reluctant – You Choose

Are you going after what you want or is life happening to you? Perhaps a combination of both? Conditioning plays a significant role and if you can acknowledge it for what it is and exercise presence in the context of backdrop built on apathy – you are one step ahead of most.  There is a propensity to turn to the routine first. However; the routine typically pays the least. Commerce reward the creative and the risk taker but particular cultures have an infused bias toward safety. Were you sporty in your youth? Then you have an advantage. Were you comfortable in the wilderness? Then you have an advantage. Were you effective at handling oppressive influences? Then you have an advantage. 

If you’re still concerned about others perception of you – you are disadvantaged because you hesitate. If all the puzzle pieces need  to be in place before you move – then you second guess and shutter. If you are worried about your retirement – then you’ll fall in line. 

An output requires the continual realization of regular inputs along with patience. You need to be able to “not see it to believe it” while also manifesting a visualization of seeing it within your mind’s eye. This output requires a keen affinity toward the merits of your individual uniqueness in context of a market which may not be readily apparent. 

As you go about your business, take a look around. There is so much that you don’t know but you are immersed in the psychodrama of micro problems of which the resolution of such may be immediately outside of your control. When you come to learn of the microcosm from which you operate and the limits of such space, then your curiosity evolves. Now…take it from there in a spirit of deliberate movement.   

Colleen Jones My Thoughts

I didn’t meet this woman, Colleen Jones, but I know of her and I’ve watched her in action as both a curling skip and as a reporter. I admired her competitive spirit, her sincerity, and her humanity. She was a fully genuine person and for those who knew her personally – they will all be grieving deeply this evening at news of her untimely death at 65.

My memories of her via TV are not vivid because they go quite a ways back but I have this gnawing and yearning to share as I recollect that central to her character was the way the she treated others. Curling is a game where players make shots and miss shots. Some shots go awry but then produce a favorable result. Some shots can lose a team games. She was the skip and thrived on having the last shot. Leaders step up to this kind of calling. Good curlers and leaders know how to keep a vibe when things go off the rails. They know how to uplift a disappointed player. Colleen had this going on like no other. She had other peoples interests at heart seemingly at every moment in her very raw unpretentious way. This is my memory of Colleen Jones.

The Pathetic Sadness Of Fraud – Magliocca Story

You have to dig real deep to find the root of why someone would attempt to defraud his neighbour (fellow city tax payers) of five grand by padding expense reports for reimbursement. This is the Joe Magliocca story – a municipal councillor in Calgary. He was convicted today.

As a tax accountant, it’s very rare that I encounter any individual who proactively engages in deceit in order to gain an advantage via the tax system. Whenever in doubt, folks will present a transaction in order to determine its treatment. Whenever I witness something questionable, in the vast majority of the time it has to do with an individual’s inattentiveness or carelessness. Some folks do not exhibit the requisite patience to record keep meticulous and accountants / bookkeepers become adept at sensing these personalities. If you are one of these personalities who believe that your time is too valuable to spend with the minutiae particular to your own personal finance and decide to delegate the tasks then ensure to deploy a control mechanism in order to ensure a quality output. Examples of such controls would be spot check and reports. 

It’s hard to conceive what a person would be thinking when purposefully conducting an act of fraud. Any perceived benefit far outweighs the penalties and loss of reputation. Here is one hard reality that every taxpayer should come to learn. If you habitually file late or if you draw money from a corporation and fail to file or if you represent a claim in which you are not eligible….you may be perceived no differently than Mr. Magliocca in the eyes of the law.  Income tax regulations deal with terms such as tax avoidance and tax evasion and penalties are applied in accordance with how you appear absent of a judge or jury.

Convictions failed to surface during the “Panama Papers” investigation but these off shore corporate directors likely have much deeper pockets for paying lawyers than you. I know of one class action tax case still unresolved some fifteen plus years on whereby you would have thought that a Statue of Limitations would apply. 

Mr. Joe Magliocca looks to appeal his conviction.

Never be anyone who wrongly accuses, gaslights someone in despair, purposely or accidentally commits a fraud. However; do hold people to account and look to build trusted warm relationships because we all need more of those.    

Missteps At Retailer Target

The business model is fairly simple. Buy in bulk, leverage up with volume, and provide pricing at a discount to the market. When Target came to Canada, I was aghast at what they were asking of me at the checkout. They wanted more than what I was willing to provide for the transaction and I suspect I wasn’t the only one. I believe this one and only service related policy was central to the public backlash of Target here in Canada thereby prompting discomfort between consumers and management. The Americans seemed to have thought they could assume things of Canadians for which American discount shoppers were more easily complicit.

More recently, we see that there has been perception growing that Target through its silence may have changed course in regard to it policy around Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI). Sales are off and the stock is down some thirty plus percent since the start of 2025. Certainly, there are other attributions causing the price to fall but I’m reminded tonight that you cannot treat people poorly and expect their loyalty. Big box shoppers will be particularly acute to any change in DEI policy whether perceived or otherwise. 

After my Target shopping experience in years back, I was little surprised that the company determined that they were mistaken in their quest to expand north. Indifferent management deaf to the culture of the customer will lose. This year, shareholders of Target unbeknownst to the inner dynamics of their company’s corporate culture have taken losses and have every good reason to be asking tough questions.      

Ambivalence Must Now Be Shown The Door

You grew up in a household which taught values. You learned them and you now hold them dear. You also use them on a daily basis but you’ve seldom been tasked to deploy them within your macro social environment. Now is the time for that.  

You see…not everyone is as blessed as you. Some had not been blessed with a functioning household infused with integrity. Some folks now peer through a dark lens void from the loving canvas of a warm home. Cynicism has overtaken some of them so that their judgment has become clouded with apathy. Some have come to trust no one. Imagine that! 

You cannot allow the cynicism to develop into policy like it has recently in the United States of America. You cannot rationalize complicity and succumb to the lowest common denominator of life. You cannot exempt yourself from expression because of fear. You must speak. You must now express those values which have brought you abundance in spirit and peace in your heart. Help others come to know that covetousness and greed imperil and that love conquers all.